Reading the teachings in the book of Confucius we learn that there is an overall appreciation and admiration towards the elders and overall the older people. That not only must such be respected but they should be handled in a specific manner stated by the Master himself. I do disagree with the idea that you must respect ALL elders. I believe in the idea of mutual respect, and the idea of not being a complete hypocrite. If an elder treats you with respect and does not mock your innocence then he deserves to be treated correctly.
The book of Confucius states that by being nice and having a proper way of talking, one is not good. You earn the Goodness. Respect is the same, it must be earned. If you just give it away there is no point trying.
Continuing along with the Master’s teachings I found a citation of great value:
“Do not be concerned that no one has heard of you, but rather strive to become a person worthy of being known.”(Confucius. 4.14)
My understanding of this cite is that you must not strive for the fame. But you must reach Goodness to a point where your memory is admired and remembered. Basically that ones memory and admiration must not be target but rather a price by not aiming for it.
Become that who is remembered but do not try to be a famous individual.
As for admiration and respect, I do think that one must treat all people nicely but I don’t thing that automatically earns your respect. Shouldn’t you do Good and expect nothing in return. Elders expect Respect and admiration. This makes no sense at all.
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